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My new male 1 year old cat is trying to mate with my other 6 year old cat?

Its true. One day I was in my sister room and my two male cats were fighting in my bed as usual and I go in there and 1 year old cat or henry is biting on my other cat or preston’s neck and henry’s hips are vibrating and in humping moveent but on preston upper thigh. I dont understand what he was doing until i pulled henry off and his penis was hard. What should i do. Do i take him to the vet or something or spray him. Please give me feedback.

LOL, this is so normal it’s funny.

Cats, dogs, and even humans “hump” all the time because it feels good, not because they want to breed with said subject.

I call this “play humping” and it’s something young (not yet fixed pets do) and also what fixed pets do later on in life. Also, non fixed pets also do the “play humping” all the time. It’s an innate part of them and nothing you can do can prevent them from doing it.

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Male Orgasmic Disorder

Question to Spicy Gear’s Experts – For as long as I remember, I’ve never ejaculated while having vaginal intercourse. I’m fine when I masturbate, but just can’t seem to get aroused enough for orgasm. What is this called? and how can I fix this problem. We would like to have children and I hate faking orgasm.

The clinical term for the problem you describe is Male Orgasmic Disorder, also know as inhibited ejaculation, impaired ejaculation and delayed ejaculation. Because you say you are able to ejaculate when self-pleasuring, it can be assumed that medical and/or physiological causes are not at play.

There are many theories as to the psychological causes of inhibited ejaculation. Common themes include fears of pregnancy and of commitment. If the relationship is troubled and control issues exist outside of the bedroom, inhibited ejaculation can be a “holding back” –a way of regaining control between the sheets. Other things, such as strict religious beliefs and performance anxiety can be an obstacle.

What I have seen as the most common factor is inadequate stimulation and not enough ‘core-play’. No, I didn’t mean ‘fore-play’. Fore-play implies that it is something you do before the good stuff. Core-play is the good stuff!!! So much emphasis is placed on penetration and orgasm that some couples rush through the core-play and don’t get enough stimulation and arousal. Also, if you are overly concerned with pleasuring your partner you may become too distracted from your own sensations and loss excitement.

What I recommend is that you slow down a bit. Agree with your wife to take some time off from intercourse and even self-pleasuring for a while (2-4 weeks). Then spend time together enhancing your core-play skills. Sensual messages, playful touching and stroking, oral stimulation, and very importantly, communicating about what you like sexually and how you like to be touched. If this doesn’t help, please consider consulting with a sex therapist.

Question answered by Spicy Gear’s Sex Therapist Lynne Santiago, MS, LMHC

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